Secrets You Should Keep from Your Girlfriend

4. Your dislike for her family

It can be a bad idea to tell your girlfriend straight away that you don’t like some of her family members. Things like this can be put on hold. She may not be pleased learning about it and may worry about how you will get along with her family if your relationship is a long term one.

5. Your views about her weight gain

You can keep your views about your girlfriend’s minor weight gain a secret until she realizes it herself or until the time that you think it is important from a health perspective to point it out. Allow her to start such a conversation and only nod along in agreement as she complains about her weight issues. If you tell your girlfriend upfront that she has gained weight, she can easily start feeling less confident or worry that you are not attracted to her anymore.

6. Your dislike for her best friend

There is no compulsion that you must get along with your girlfriend’s best friend. But there is also no need to spell it out completely without any basis. Keep this a secret until you think that it is vital for your relationship to make it known to her. There may be unnecessary confusion or tension if you blatantly tell your girlfriend that you hate her best friend.