8 Tips to Deal with an Over-Possessive Girlfriend

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Possessiveness to a certain extent is a desirable quality. You feel wanted and valued in a relationship. But when it crosses a boundary, it is capable of wrecking relationship. Here are 8 tips to deal with an over possessive girlfriend.

1. Make her feel safe

You need to make her believe that you are her safe place to land. Express your emotions and love for her; there shouldn’t be any room for doubt.

2. Introduce her to your female friends

Your female friends should not emerge as a surprise. You should make it clear from the beginning that you have selected female friends and you like to hang out with them. Their calls or messages should not negatively impact her.

3. Make sure you give her concrete reasons for not being available

If you are not able to meet or call her, make sure she is aware about the reason you can’t make it. Keeping her in the dark will only feed into doubting you. She will make conscious efforts to keep a track on you.

4. Never lie or hide your whereabouts

Whether you are in a pub or at a game with friends, there is no reason for you to feel guilty. Pick up the phone and let her know that you’re out with friends and will call her back. If she ever accuses you, you can always say that you have been very honest and forthright.