6 Tips on How to Talk Dirty to Your Girlfriend

4. Go slow

Do not start rattling off like a robot as soon as you hit the bed. Build up the tempo and based on how she responds to your talk, keep going ahead and pushing the boundaries.

5. Be natural

She might like dirty talk and you may not. If you are doing it for her, sound natural. She can definitely smell it if you are faking it.

6. Build it up

It doesn’t really have to happen in bed, start texting her on your way home or email her when you are in office, detailing what you would be doing to her later. She will be hot and ready for you when you get home.

Dirty talk during sex can also be used as a camouflage to tell your partner what you really want in the sack, you could start by suggesting a few moves or positions you would want her to do. If she likes it, she’d do it, if she does not, it can always be the talk and both of you can shrug it off. No harm done there. There is no general rule when it comes to dirty talking to your girlfriend. You learn as you go. Just don’t repeat your mistakes.